Strange but true …


The strangest thing about being “Home Alone” is the noises that occur during the night. K*** is away with her sister and niece and R*** is on respite until Friday. Usually, R*** has his computer and TV on all night and you can hear that as a faint background noise. Then there is your partners … Continue reading Strange but true …

Not much sleep …


A stressful evening and a bad night. Don't know what was going on, but at about half past 2, the bl**dy dog wandered into our bedroom. I'm thinking it might have been poorly, and K*** had left the door open with the idea that it might be cooler. That was never going to work. What … Continue reading Not much sleep …

First day …


Well I think I slept okay. I don't remember too much. I do remember getting up in the middle of the night for my usual visit to the toilet. Totally confused, I completely forgot that we had an en suite and trotted of downstairs. How I remembered there was a toilet downstairs if I had … Continue reading First day …

Life changer – “Day 2 + “


After a surprisingly quiet and reasonably comfortable night (which I can only put down to the morphine) I woke about 6:30. This became the norm for me, to wake at around the time I would have done had I been at home. Breakfast arrived at just after 08:00 and was asked if I wanted cornflakes … Continue reading Life changer – “Day 2 + “

Life changer – “Job done!!!”


This will be one of the last few of my 'Life changer' posts. As you may gather from the title, it's all over. I was admitted on the 25th of June and by 1pm on the 26th I was in the famed ICU (Intensive Care Unit). I shall not to into the gory detail of … Continue reading Life changer – “Job done!!!”

Life changer – “T” minus 4


Only 4 more nights until the op. I should probably call it 'a procedure' as it sounds more professional. At least, that's what they call this kind of thing on TV. I suppose calling it a procedure kind of leads you to think that this is routine. Of course, it is routine by the very … Continue reading Life changer – “T” minus 4

Survived ….


     Well, tonight (this evening to be precise) went a lot better than than the last one. Youngest seems to be a little more in control, although we have the rest of the night to get through. It appears that school was not good. He was so 'agitated' as they put it, that they felt … Continue reading Survived ….